Monday, December 3, 2012

Highs and lows

What a week it's been.

Last Sunday night was a typical Sunday night.  I went to play hockey, scored my first goal of the season, and we won a thrilling game.  I was pretty excited, happy, and went home feeling pretty good.  I was facing a busy week at work and that was going to help me start it off right.

Then Monday morning hit.

I was sitting at my desk catching up on some e-mails when one of the managers walked up.  Normally when he does it's something funny or he's got a problem.  Instead he came with some news:  a co-worker at another office had died in a car accident Sunday night.  I was shocked and somewhat devastated. Tori was one of those people that would walk into a room of 100 people and come out with 100 friends.  She just had that kind of personality.  She was always very helpful, smiling, and just a great person to be around.  Every time I saw her she would at least stop and say hello and see how I was doing.  It was quite a shock to find out that I'd never get that opportunity again.  Then I found out that her accident happened about a mile from my house.  That made it even worse.  Tori was only 27 years old.  She had a bright future ahead of her.  She will be greatly missed.

That set the tone for the remainder of the week.

Tuesday through Thursday I was in a class in addition to my normal duties.  Class was interesting, but it was hard to concentrate.  Then came news that another co-worker had been involved in a serious car accident  and was in intensive care.  Now within a week we've had two co-workers involved in two serious car accidents, one fatal and one very serious. 

By the time Thursday afternoon rolled around, I was looking for a rock to climb under and hide.  But that wasn't going to happen.  Thursday was busy day at work - we were doing some maintenance after hours.  It would require some attention.  I left work to get my daughter from day care, take her home, wait for my wife to get home, then go back to work.

I made it to Friday without too many issues.  Luckily the maintenance went better than expected and we didn't have a lot of issues. 

Saturday I went to Tori's viewing, then we had family portraits.  The portrait gallery was an hour behind schedule.  We were lucky that our daughter didn't have a meltdown during the entire process.  We survived long enough to get some really good pictures. 

Sunday was hockey game #2 for the week. For whatever reason I didn't play well.  My head just wasn't in the game.  I missed several good opportunities and didn't have a lot of energy.  We still won the game, but it just didn't feel as good.  I felt that it was my worst game of the season.  It probably wasn't,  but when you don't play that great after a week of lows, it's hard to see the highs.

I'm ready for some more highs.  I'm done with lows for a while.

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