As many of you have probably seen, Valentine's Day is next week. Judging by the store displays, e-mails, and TV ads, advertisers are expecting billions to be spent.
I will not be one of those people.
I have hated Valentine's day for a long time. It goes back to my high school days. My junior year my then girlfriend and I had a falling out that day that led to the end of our relationship. Same scenario the following year. Same thing happened to me my freshman year of college. At that point I decided that the holiday was nothing but a waste of time and money.
Now you're probably thinking, "Andy, aren't you married now? Shouldn't you celebrate it with your wife?" Yes, you are correct. I should. She likes the day. She doesn't expect anything big, but expects me to do something for it. I don't usually do anything big. I know she's not happy about it.
Here's my deal: Why should I spend a lot of money and care about my wife just one day out of the year? I married her to enjoy every day with her. I don't want to show my love and support just one day out of the year.
I agreed to do something for what I call "Hallmark day". But we agreed to do it on a day other than the 14th. But I will also celebrate my marriage on more than just one day.
Valentine's day is over commercialized. It now stands to force men to blow wads of money on chocolates, flowers, and the like to try and impress either your wife or girlfriend. I am one of those people that refuse to give in to the commercialization for one stinking day.